Wednesday, December 27, 2017

Would you like to support BTB?


Bigger Than Ball is a mindset.  The idea to capture all of the Bigger Than Ball moments, as well as highlight coaches who are teaching more than the game, or to even remind coaches of their "Why" came through many years of prayer and conversations from some of the best minds in the coaching industry.

I was told by an SEC Head Coach during a one on one breakfast: "I love the concept of Bigger Than Ball.  I'm going on 13 straight months with no rest.  I need to be reminded right about now.  We pour into these kids every day, but there is not an organization out there that is pouring into us."

That's when I felt God spoke to me:
1.)  Support/Highlight those that know their "why" and are making an impact
2.)  Give a platform for coaches to connect and give back
3.)  Capture their stories and impact millions of fans and the next generation of coaches

This is what we are doing.  We are less than one year old.  It has been a struggle to find out exactly where God wanted this to go, but I believe we are in the right direction:

1.)  It is our desire to connect with as many coaches and athletic directors across the nation to create this opportunity to come together in times of need and create change:  There is power in numbers.  Imagine the impact we can have with one e-mail request or tweet that can ask the coaching industry (all sports) to rally around one cause.  We are soliciting one liaison per state to help us spread our message and build our network  (You can join today at our website: www.biggerthanball.com)

2.)  We have our first clinic set up for Feb. 17 in Tupelo, MS.  We seek to have many more.  This structure will build the framework as each speaker will speak on topics bigger than the game.  We will capture this on video and share to the world.  We also will do one on one video interviews to capture coaches and their stories/testimonials. We have one booked for January 15th that we are very excited about!  (More details to come)

3.)  With our network of coaches, we are creating the opportunity to build a sporting goods drive in which we will collect and share with kids or organizations that are less fortunate.  We will send locally to programs in need or in other nations.  We will do this year round and be the foundation for sporting good ministry opportunities.

4.)  We desire to use our network to create real HOPE in children or families in need.  We envision using our network, by sharing a story of a kid or family that needs encouragement in their lives.  We will reach out to our network and seek opportunities for our coaches and AD's to send positive messages, and/or do home visits and even use our platform to raise dollars if needed.

5.)  On down the road, we envision building a 3,500 sf cabin retreat that can host clinics, retreats for coaches, and serve as our headquarters where we will do much of our video production of Bigger Than Ball moments.  Plans are in the works now.

If you are passionate about this message/vision, please reach out to us and connect.  Consider supporting this foundation.  We are a 501(c)3 non-profit.  100% of funds collected will go to towards making a difference in the lives of the coaching industry and all that they impact.

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Click the icon above to donate online or you may send to:  
Bigger Than Ball - PO Box 299 - Belden, MS 38826


Monday, December 18, 2017

What do you value in your program?

         I got into coaching because I love baseball, sports in general. I wanted to be around it. I wanted to be a part of it. I really couldn't get enough of it. I got into coaching because I wanted to win games, win championships, and be known as a great coach. I loved to win and hated to lose. I got into coaching, partly, for selfish reasons. All of those are still true. However, there is also a part of me that wanted to challenge young players not to make the same mistakes I made as a player... and as a person. I have always been a dreamer. Of course, like most young boys, I dreamed of playing big time college baseball. I dreamed of playing in the big leagues. I dreamed of all-star status and hall of fame credentials. I didn't fulfill those dreams. My skills and abilities as an athlete weren't where they needed to be for that to happen. Even if they were, no one makes it on talent alone. I often think and wonder to myself-- "What if?" What if I was disciplined enough to skip the party and head to the cages? What if I knew what accountability was and stopped making excuses? What if I was committed to taking the extra ground balls or extra swings after practice? What if my attitude could have been better about some of the tough situations I put myself into as an athlete? What if I gave the EXTRA effort? I don't like that "what if" feeling and I struggle with it often. I feel like I played and practiced as hard as I could. I wasn't afraid to sweat, or bleed, or get dirty during games or practice, but there was a lot of sweat and blood that I held back. What if I had done more? If only I would have listened a little more. I hope my players don't have to struggle with "what ifs?" But through God's Grace, I have people in my life, my parents; my siblings; my wife; other coaches, who love me enough to impact my life and help me realize what is important. At the end of the day, the wins and championships are great memories, but the lessons learned are what will carry someone through life. Coaches have a unique and tremendous platform to share those values and teach those lessons. And sometimes it is the coach who has the greatest impact on a young person.

       I have been very fortunate to coach with and coach against some very skilled leaders, guys who are respected, guys who are revered, guys who are loved. It is no accident that those coaches consistently win. The past several years as a coach, under the guidance of champions; hall of famers; great coaches; great men; great husbands; great fathers, I have started to develop a set of core values that I believe are vital to a championship program-- winning on and off the field.

  Discipline- Do the right thing. We don't make rules JUST to make rules. We don't give players responsibilities to clean up the field, cages, or weight room because we don't feel like doing it. We don't tell players to act right in school and to keep up their grades for eligibility purposes. I truly believe these things create discipline. Discipline is an effort to do it right... ALL THE TIME. Every rep. Every pitch. Every at-bat. Every play. Every game. In every day life, discipline is an effort to do it right. Every situation. Every conversation. Every assignment. Every class. Every day on the job. Every day at home. Every day. Putting in the extra work, taking time to make sure you're doing what is best for the team-- your home team or your sports team-- that is discipline.

  Accountability- No excuses. We all hear them. We all make them. It is a daily struggle that we see more and more each day. "It's not my fault." Accountability is owning up to mistakes and taking on responsibility to fix it. How can a player get better if he or she does no wrong? Mom, Dad: how will your child get better if he or she does no wrong? It takes a conscious effort at home, at work, at school, at practice, at games. The best of the best make no excuses.

  Commitment- Do what it takes to be the best you can be. I ask my players all the time do be committed to being the best they can be. Take extra reps. Put in early work or stay later. That's how the great ones do it. Commit to studies. Commit to doing your job well. One day, Lord willing, our players will get married and have kids. Commit to being there for your family-- your spouse, your children.

  Effort and Attitude- All of the above take great effort and the right attitude. It's easy to be negative and to give in to laziness because something is difficult. I am guilty. But there is good news-- each day I wake up, I get a chance to fix that attitude. I get a chance to work to make it better.

        These are important for players to understand and equally important for coaches to understand and model for players, for children, for co-workers. What a platform to create change! That's why I am behind the message and goals of Bigger Than Ball. I love to win and hate to lose as much as anyone, but I choose the opportunity to win the right way-- implementing values that will lead to success on the field and in life, because it really is bigger than ball.

Chris Shelton

Thursday, December 14, 2017

Holiday Sporting Goods Drive

There are no words than can describe seeing the smile of a child that has been struggling. In my own personal life, I see so many kids that have such terrible body language on a daily basis. When I say that, I don't mean they are being disrespectful...they look sad and/or hurt.
Nobody really ever knows what is going on at home or even at school, so we never really know how to truly help. The truth is we all face problems (stress, peer pressure, depression, divorce, alcoholism, etc). The scary thing: Many kids will never truly open up and get help.
There is cyberbullying as well. We all know how hateful young immature kids can be, but in this day of cell phones, snap chat, twitter....a bully has such an audience that it can make the impact exponentially worse and it get out of hand so fast that we (as adults) don't even see it until it is too late.
As coaches, we can help. Pay attention. Show love. Have that extra conversation. You don't have to ask too many questions. Sometimes, a pat on the back or just simply saying "I love you guys" is more than that kid is getting in other areas of their life.
If it takes being a parental figure, Bigger Than Ball believes that is part of our calling as a coach, you must do that in whatever way you see fit. Our names won't always be in the paper for the games we won, but our impact will live forever in this young boy or girl's heart.
This sporting goods drive is an easy way to have our kids understand what it means to give...what it means to have your heart filled with joy by helping others and also to show kids that are in need what Hope looks like.
This foundation is committed to capturing those smiles once you donate your sporting goods. The smile you see will impact the way you coach for the rest of your life!
#biggerthanball
#givehope
So coach, I pray you are inspired to use your sports platform to create change.
Join us today: www.biggerthanball.com
God Bless
Will Lowrey

Friday, June 23, 2017

Coach Butch Thompson to speak....June 27

AUBURN’S BUTCH THOMPSON TO HEADLINE FIRST EVENT FOR COACHES

Hattiesburg, MS – The University of Southern Mississippi will host coaches from across the south on June 27, 2017 at the Touchdown Terrace inside M.M. Roberts Stadium (better known as “The Rock”). This event is lined up for baseball coaches on any level (Youth/High School/College/Professional) to come experience Bigger Than Ball coaching priorities. Other sports coaches are welcome to attend.
"This foundation is touching the heart of the coaching industry and it is greatly needed. I am looking forward to being involved and re-energized by the impact that we can have beyond ball. Bigger than Ball and it's vision will explode." – Auburn Head Coach, Butch Thompson. Doors will open at 7 pm. Food and Refreshments will be provided. This sponsored event will be free to all who attend. Invitations are open to the first 100 to pre-register. Coaches may pre-register at www.biggerthanball.com.
The Bigger Than Ball Foundation seeks to encourage and equip coaches to step back from their rigorous schedule to rest and reflect. We desire to influence the coaching industry one heart at a time.

Wednesday, January 11, 2017


Hi, I’m Will Lowrey… I am a high school baseball coach in Mississippi.  My wife, Jennifer, received a double lung transplant in January of 2011 at Duke Medical in Durham, North Carolina….only one month before my first official job in coaching was set to begin. 

Needless to say, it changed my priorities in a powerful way.  When Jennifer and I married in the summer of 2010, I had to come to terms with the idea that this life is only temporary.  My family and I will live out our lives understanding that everything can be taken away from us on any given day.  We have learned to walk in faith and through our journey, God has shown himself over and over.

Wins became secondary and Love became a priority.  My coaching philosophy revolved around God’s promises to us all.  Over the years, I have coached daily to my athletes the fact that everything we do and accomplish is “Bigger than Ball”.  There is always something greater than ourselves.

Jennifer is now in line to get her second Double lung transplant this spring. 

I have always struggled with understanding what God’s will has been for my life.  I’ve had the goal of becoming a college coach for many years.  God never released me to chase that dream.  It was always apparent that collegiate coaching would not allow me the opportunity to keep my family first.  It was only recently I received a vision on how God was calling me to become a Coach of Coaches.

The coaching industry is so competitive and time consuming.  During my journey of chasing that college job, I had one coach after another explain that this was not the industry to be in if you have a family, especially in my circumstance.  There are sacrifices that must be made.  The pressures to win are so great at each institution, it brings daily challenges to a coaches values. 

I have been inspired to begin a foundation that supports the coach and his or her family.  We now have the “Bigger Than Ball Foundation” that will offer opportunities for coaches to unwind from those pressures and allow them to get re-energized and focused on the reason they coach.

Proverbs 27:17 models to us how Iron sharpens Iron.  The foundation will begin raising funds to buy land and build a 5,000 sf cabin in which we can host coaches from across the nation. Through our foundation we will offer the platform to reshape the coaching industry one heart at a time.

www.biggerthanball.com

Sunday, November 20, 2016

My own 40 days..

After months of what I've always called prayer, it has increased in the past few weeks.  I've felt led to increase my prayer life.

So here the structure and journey that I've committed to:

40 days and nights of prayer:

- 1 hour in the mornings and 1 hour at night
- I am only drinking water and eating certain foods
- I will journal after each prayer session in the following categories:
              -  Specific Prayers
              -  Visions (ideas that come to mind while praying)
              -  Revelations  (Things that I believe God is showing me)

- I hope to go back and see my specific prayers, visions, and revelations over the 40 days and get a good glimpse of what God is saying to me....

It is my hope to become spiritually connected on a level that I've never experienced.  I pray that He reveal a direction, mission, or ministry to me.  I'm trying to get myself to a place where I can receive and obey the call.

Day one was yesterday:  December 19th.

Today...I'm about to start my morning session.




Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Don't Widen the Plate

Don’t Widen the Plate
In Nashville, Tennessee, during the first week of January, 1996, more than 4,000 baseball coaches descended upon the Opryland Hotel for the 52nd annual ABCA convention.
While I waited in line to register with the hotel staff, I heard other more veteran coaches rumbling about the lineup of speakers scheduled to present during the weekend. One name, in particular, kept resurfacing, always with the same sentiment — “John Scolinos is here? Oh man, worth every penny of my airfare.”
Who the heck is John Scolinos, I wondered. No matter, I was just happy to be there.
In 1996, Coach Scolinos was 78 years old and five years retired from a college coaching career that began in 1948. He shuffled to the stage to an impressive standing ovation, wearing dark polyester pants, a light blue shirt, and a string around his neck from which home plate hung — a full-sized, stark-white home plate.
Seriously, I wondered, who in the heck is this guy?
After speaking for twenty-five minutes, not once mentioning the prop hanging around his neck, Coach Scolinos appeared to notice the snickering among some of the coaches. Even those who knew Coach Scolinos had to wonder exactly where he was going with this, or if he had simply forgotten about home plate since he’d gotten on stage.
Then, finally …
“You’re probably all wondering why I’m wearing home plate around my neck. Or maybe you think I escaped from Camarillo State Hospital,” he said, his voice growing irascible. I laughed along with the others, acknowledging the possibility. “No,” he continued, “I may be old, but I’m not crazy. The reason I stand before you today is to share with you baseball people what I’ve learned in my life, what I’ve learned about home plate in my 78 years.”
Several hands went up when Scolinos asked how many Little League coaches were in the room. “Do you know how wide home plate is in Little League?” After a pause, someone offered, “Seventeen inches,” more question than answer.
“That’s right,” he said. “How about in Babe Ruth? Any Babe Ruth coaches in the house?”
Another long pause.
“Seventeen inches?”came a guess from another reluctant coach.
“That’s right,” said Scolinos. “Now, how many high school coaches do we have in the room?” Hundreds of hands shot up, as the pattern began to appear. “How wide is home plate in high school baseball?”
“Seventeen inches,” they said, sounding more confident.
“You’re right!” Scolinos barked. “And you college coaches, how wide is home plate in college?”
“Seventeen inches!” we said, in unison.
“Any Minor League coaches here? How wide is home plate in pro ball?”
“Seventeen inches!”
“RIGHT! And in the Major Leagues, how wide home plate is in the Major Leagues?”
“Seventeen inches!”
“SEV-EN-TEEN INCHES!” he confirmed, his voice bellowing off the walls. “And what do they do with a a Big League pitcher who can’t throw the ball over seventeen inches?” Pause. “They send him to Pocatello!” he hollered, drawing raucous laughter.
“What they don’t do is this: they don’t say, ‘Ah, that’s okay, Jimmy. You can’t hit a seventeen-inch target? We’ll make it eighteen inches, or nineteen inches. We’ll make it twenty inches so you have a better chance of hitting it. If you can’t hit that, let us know so we can make it wider still, say twenty-five inches.'”
Pause.
“Coaches …”
Pause.
” … what do we do when our best player shows up late to practice? When our team rules forbid facial hair and a guy shows up unshaven? What if he gets caught drinking? Do we hold him accountable? Or do we change the rules to fit him, do we widen home plate?
The chuckles gradually faded as four thousand coaches grew quiet, the fog lifting as the old coach’s message began to unfold. He turned the plate toward himself and, using a Sharpie, began to draw something. When he turned it toward the crowd, point up, a house was revealed, complete with a freshly drawn door and two windows. “This is the problem in our homes today. With our marriages, with the way we parent our kids. With our discipline. We don’t teach accountability to our kids, and there is no consequence for failing to meet standards. We widen the plate!”
Pause. Then, to the point at the top of the house he added a small American flag.
“This is the problem in our schools today. The quality of our education is going downhill fast and teachers have been stripped of the tools they need to be successful, and to educate and discipline our young people. We are allowing others to widen home plate! Where is that getting us?”
Silence. He replaced the flag with a Cross.
“And this is the problem in the Church, where powerful people in positions of authority have taken advantage of young children, only to have such an atrocity swept under the rug for years. Our church leaders are widening home plate!”
I was amazed. At a baseball convention where I expected to learn something about curveballs and bunting and how to run better practices, I had learned something far more valuable. From an old man with home plate strung around his neck, I had learned something about life, about myself, about my own weaknesses and about my responsibilities as a leader. I had to hold myself and others accountable to that which I knew to be right, lest our families, our faith, and our society continue down an undesirable path.
“If I am lucky,” Coach Scolinos concluded, “you will remember one thing from this old coach today. It is this: if we fail to hold ourselves to a higher standard, a standard of what we know to be right; if we fail to hold our spouses and our children to the same standards, if we are unwilling or unable to provide a consequence when they do not meet the standard; and if our schools and churches and our government fail to hold themselves accountable to those they serve, there is but one thing to look forward to …” With that, he held home plate in front of his chest, turned it around, and revealed its dark black backside.  “… dark days ahead.”
Coach Scolinos died in 2009 at the age of 91, but not before touching the lives of hundreds of players and coaches, including mine. Meeting him at my first ABCA convention kept me returning year after year, looking for similar wisdom and inspiration from other coaches. He is the best clinic speaker the ABCA has ever known because he was so much more than a baseball coach.
His message was clear: “Coaches, keep your players — no matter how good they are — your own children, and most of all, keep yourself at seventeen inches.

-  Will Lowrey

Thursday, December 31, 2015

365 Day Challenge is complete...

Today marks the end of my 365 Day challenge to post scripture or a positive encouraging message on twitter...

Seems simple enough, but I found there to be days that I struggled with even wanting to put anything out.  An entire year of ups and downs, it really gave me a miniature glimpse of what we all go through, throughout our lives.

Even though I told myself that I would post these inspirational reminders for others, I believe it helped me as much or more.  I was able to see God's word come true over and over and also how His word is a constant teacher and reminder of His direction for our lives.

It also taught me the importance of staying in His word.  There would be so many times throughout the year that the same scripture that had helped me through certain times of the year, would help me with different insights later on.  It literally seemed that God used His word to tell me exactly what He needed me to hear.

And then there is that constant reminder:

I finished the year with the verse below, because even after He tells us this great commandment...we all read it and get sidetracked five minutes later.....

Day 365: "And He said unto them, Go ye into the world, and preach the gospel to every creature." Mark 16:15

It demands that I keep focused on why I am here, why I exist, why I do what I do....this is really my only job in life and everything else falls in line.

It keeps everything in prospective for me even though it takes daily practice to remind myself of this.

Something so simple, but I have to realize how selfish our human flesh really is.  When I am having a bad day or mad about anything in my life, I have quite simply lost focus.

Take the 365 Day challenge...I hope it works as well for you as it has for me.

May He bless all of you and your families over the next 365!

- Will Lowrey

Sunday, July 26, 2015

Youth Baseball: Sending all the wrong messages?

Youth Baseball: Sending all the wrong messages?
By: Will Lowrey

               As a kid, I remember the excitement of putting my one color blue t-shirt on with white lettering sponsored by the local soda company.  I remember my matching blue button in the back mesh “trucker” hat.  The field was a sandlot made with a broken chain-link fence surrounding with many holes in it.  The backstop was made from telephone poles with fencing put together.  We would play one or two games on Saturday and right after my dad and I would rush to a pond bank to get a little fishing in.  The next day, it was time for church and family.  We always took a step back and ate at the dinner table, while I told my grandparents how I had played the day before.  I think about our kids now and wonder which memories will stand out to them.  I imagine it will be similar in remembering times with family and friends rather than the thousands of games they played and the endless amount of trophies they received.  Youth baseball has transitioned into a generation of parents pushing for development and growth, while we are losing the ability for kids to be kids (Smith, 2014).
               The problem with youth baseball is what society has labeled as a “must-do” to get prepared for high school.  In the past ten years, we have seen Multi-Million dollar youth baseball complexes built in almost every community throughout the state.  The United States Specialty Sports Association (USSSA) started a business model that involved tournament ball for youth sports.  The structure offers parents and kids the ability to come to one sports complex on a weekend and the opportunity to play as many as four to six games.  Each weekend offers the opportunity to be the best.  Within that sports complex, it is not uncommon for as many as fifty to one hundred teams to be present on the many different fields appropriate for each age level. The allure of bringing that much economic development into communities was too much to pass on for government ran park and recreation departments. In the beginning, many parents resisted the temptation to get into this “travel world”, which would take such a huge financial and time commitment to be on a team (Riddle, 2014).  Over time, the feeling of getting left behind has made a huge majority leave the recreational world behind to suffer.
               Not only are travel teams competing on the field, they are competing to have the nicest jerseys, the loudest music, the best coach, etc.  Coaches are being paid as much as $5,000-$10,000 a year to coach all ages of youth teams.  The structure has this generation completely hooked…..hooked, line, and sinker.  You have the ability to play at different levels depending on how advanced your team is. Everyone is fighting to improve and recruit the best so they can call themselves a “Major Team”.  You can easily qualify in any number of World Series opportunities offered.  If you pay enough, you can even go to Disney World to play. 
               It has become so cut-throat that we are seeing teams that are competing at high levels and experiencing great success with their teams only to cut the weakest team members after the season to pick up better players.  There is no consideration into spending time with those kids to develop them and catch them up with the rest of the team. That would take too much time.  This happens in every age group.  Our parents and coaches make it okay, because they won’t be able to achieve that next level with those same kids so a business decision has to be made.  Make no bones about it, it is a business decision.  But don’t worry, those parents and kids pick up the pieces and jump right into the cyclical world with another high level program and go at it all over again.
               I have seen the competitive nature of our parents, not our kids, come out over the past ten years.  The parents that come into this world saying they aren’t sure they have the money or time to commit to these programs, are the very ones that are pushing to play additional games and travel to the best tournaments.  The immediate results of that trophy every weekend and winning is too much of an opportunity, or an appeal on our egos to walk away from.  Teams that commit to playing 4-6 per year eventually give into the pressure and play as many as sixty to one hundred games from Spring to Summer. A quick check on the USSSA website gave me the ability to sign up for over 250 tournaments from January 1 to December 31 in the state of Mississippi alone (USSSA.com, 2015).
               There is nothing wrong with creating opportunities for our youth to participate and to achieve high levels of greatness, but at what cost?  When will enough be enough?  There are problems arising from this dilemma. Kids, and I do mean kids, are making the decision not to continue playing, because they are picking up on how much it cost to play and the burden that it is putting on their families. There are families that have spent as much as $15,000-$20,000 dollars in one year to participate in hopes of a college scholarship (Riddle, 2014). Kids are playing all the way up to college and then quitting. 
There is no more balance in what kids can normally have the opportunities to do, because of the pressure they feel to keep up with their “competition”. There is no more emphasis on fun, but all about winning.  Kids are feeling like Youth Baseball has become a job (Wixon, 2014).  In contrast to their intentions, they are hurting their chances to be successful at the next level due to wear and tear on their shoulders and elbows.  These young bodies are not built to play this many games (Snyder, 2014).  It is very important to follow the guidelines that are available by the American Sports Medicine Institute regarding pitch counts and, on the whole, this is not being done (Campbell, 2015). 

Mark Hyman, author of Until It Hurts and sports management teacher at George Washington University, offers this insight when speaking of youth sports: “I think youth sports are an incredibly important part of a kids’ experience growing up.  There are so many valuable lessons to be learned there.  I want to do everything I can to encourage kids to play sports, but what I’m suggesting is that the system that is set up now is doing just the opposite.” (Smith, 2014).   There are many that will debate this view, because parents see everyone following this trend.  There are limits on pitching provided by the USSSA organization and many of the players rotate in pitching, so they see this as safe.
As many as ten players on a twelve man roster can pitch and offer relief to the players from abusing their arm.  The limits that are followed by the USSSA in tournaments are presented as what is needed to protect a young athletes’ arm.   There are also rules in place to keep players from pitching on back-to-back days and there are limits to how many innings they can pitch in a given tournament.  The only problem with this is there are no rules telling teams how many pitches a kid can throw in any term outside of that weekend.  The amount of games that teams are playing in the span of one year has become the problem.  You can play as many as 60 games in three months if you play every weekend.  Many are playing for 5-6 months out of the year or more, which allows for well over one hundred games.  In a 2002 study by the American Sports Medicine Institute, they suggest that an 11-12 year old athlete should not pitch more than 1,000 pitches in a season (Campbell, 2015).   Most top level pitchers will pitch twice in a weekend and throw a minimum of 75 pitches.  If a team plays 12 tournaments, that would equal 1,800 pitches, which can easily be played in 4-5 months. 
To add to this problem, the pitcher is not truly getting rest when he is not pitching.  Travel teams are not usually made up of more than twelve players on a roster, which means that pitcher is using his arm at another position all weekend and all season.  Keep in mind that the high level pitchers on a team may pitch two games per weekend, which would usually make up forty to fifty percent of the games played.  You do the math:  If a team plays 60 games per year, that high level pitcher would have the opportunity to pitch in a part of or all of 24-30 games per year.  That is simply not acceptable.  We are starting to see the negative results now of the past decades’ trend. 
It is time for parameters to be set on youth baseball and for our parents to see what our society is doing to our kids.  Enough is enough as it is also time to give our kids the opportunity to be a kid, while still giving them every opportunity to be prepared for the next level, without sacrificing our pocket books and our quality time with our families and experiences in other areas of our lives.  We need an opportunity to sit back down at the dinner table and play in the backyard.
Playing in six tournaments per year would mean six weekends from March to July.  There are twenty weekends in that time frame.  That would give ample opportunity for families to not over-extend themselves financially.  That would also equal about 24-30 games per season, and there is nothing wrong with staying local on five out of the six tournaments to save on travel expenses.  By adjusting to this structure, that is more than enough to develop a young athlete when you add practice time.  That might even allow for lower income families to participate.  This is greatly needed.   The current structure eliminates those that do not have the funds to be a part of something that could be great for everyone.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with splitting your travel team up and having everyone participate in your local recreational league during the week to wear that one color t-shirt and hat and make new friends and have FUN!  Youth sports should be about development and growth, not trophies (Pfeiffer, 2015).  Even though we have the best of everything with youth baseball facilities, jerseys, and opportunities in travel baseball, your kid will always remember the moments that were surrounded with acceptance, love, and fun more than any championship.  If you want to see what I’m talking about, let your kid call his friends and let them go play a game with no rules set by an adult.  The structured and organized games ran by adults are taking the kid out of your kid.

 (For the record:  I didn't start playing baseball until the 8th grade, 
and still received a college scholarship in baseball)  

References

1 Campbell, J.D. (2015). “Arm injuries a concern regarding youth baseball, too.” IU News room.  http://newsinfo.iu.edu/web/page/normal/10839.html.

2 Pfieffer, Alex (2015). “HBO’s Real Sports looks into America’s Trophy Culture”.
http://dailycaller.com/2015/07/20/hbos-real-sports-looks-into-americas-trophy-culture/

3 Riddle, Greg (2014). “Club Sports offer Exposure-but at a Steep Price”. Dallas Morning News.

4 Smith, Corbett (2014). “Time and Money: Parents Placing Kids in Specialized Sports do so at a Price”. Dallas Morning News.

5 Snyder, Matt (2014). “Dr. Andrews: Year-round baseball at young age is top TJ risk factor”.  CBSSports.com.

6 USSSA.com (2015). United States Specialty Sports Association. 

7 Wixon, Matt (2014). “Intensity of Specialization can lead to burnout: Club Sports bring increased competition, regimentation”. Dallas Morning News.


Monday, February 17, 2014

March 3: Lead for God's Sake - Todd Gongwer

Guys,

This is an event that we simply cannot miss.   We want all of our families and students present regardless if you play athletics....Who doesn't want a free meal?  Sandra Lyons is providing a Brisket Dinner with Vegetables. 

"This is a book I could not put down.  Every parent, coach, manager, and leader should read it.  I wish I had read it 30 years ago."  - Lou Holtz

A Journey into the Heart of Leadership...

Although he's one of the most successful high school basketball coaches in Kentucky's history, Steve Rocker, for the first time in his life, is falling short of expectations.  His players have lost their will to win, their love for their teammates, and their passion to play.  Coach Rocker's motivational methods that have always worked before - and have resulted in his success - are now failing, and he doesn't know why.

Struggling to understand what's happening, Coach seeks counsel of one of his most successful friends, CEO Grant Steffin, who, while fighting his own battles, offers advice based on his own leadership experiences.  Coach Rocker also stumbles upon some unexpected insight from - of all people - Joe Taylor, the high school janitor.

As Coach's season spirals downward, and as he continues to interact with these two intriguing men, the WHY questions become louder and louder in his head.  Why does he do what he does?  Or for that matter, why does he even exist?   These questions eventually push him to go deeper into his own heart than he ever imagined possible to determine his purpose not only in leadership but also in life.

March 3 will be, by definition, a fundraising night. 

The agenda will have a dinner for the first 250 to register.  Todd Gongwer, Author of Lead for God's Sake, will give his testimony and share a version of the book and then we will express a few of our athletic needs for each sport on a pledge card. (No sales pitch)

WE DO NOT WANT you to take one dollar out of your pocket unless you feel led.  The purpose of this night is THE MESSAGE.  If you don't give one dollar to this event, as long as you hear the message, it is more valuable than any dollar amount you may donate.  You may come and enjoy the fellowship with family. 

Please consider registering now:  http://form.jotform.co/form/33274016521849

"I could not put this book down.  It transcends culture, gender, economics...something that anyone can relate to.  What a message!"  Monty Williams - New Orleans Hornets, Head Coach

"A real life changer!  An incredible story packed with great leadership insights.   Coaches, parents, and business leaders alike will benefit from reading this book."  - Mark Merrill, President, Family First (All Pro Dad)



Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Focus!

Focus!
                                  
This is to all of the people that may be wondering what the journey is like (if you are waiting on your transplant)
It is fantastic!  There are continuous blessings!  But....it is extremely exhausting! 
As I look over the past three years, our God has held our hand every step of the way.  If it were not for OUR God, it would be impossible.
You would think by the appearance of Jennifer and her ability to breathe now, things are okay and we are looking any troubles we've had in the rearview mirror.
Not the case.  As a transplant patient, you are forced to stay on your toes.  Each day you wake up, it could be something new:
*Low on energy
*Medicine could be out of balance which could lead to rejection
*Constant going to get blood drawn
*Constant check on potential viruses that you could get from just about anything!
*Planning out your day and carefully diagnosing if it is safe to be somewhere without catching a sickness
*The effort of taking your 30 meds on time!  This sounds so easy....until you try it every day!  5 times a day!
*Driving 13 hours to Duke Medical....three to four days trip each time and driving 13 hours back at least four times per year.
*Each time you make the trip, you brace yourself for the potential of rejection.
Enough of the negativity...we live with this, knowing that the alternative would have been far worse!    We are thankful for this life and wouldn't trade these minor problems for anything.
It is extremely exhausting though.  There is mental, physical and even spiritual strain throughout most days.  It requires focus.
We keep our focus on God!  I completely want to fall to my knees as I type this.  It is beyond humbling.  I feel that there would be no way that an individual could successfully make it through this process without the LOVE of our Father. 
He has used so many of you in ways that you are not even aware of in support of us.  We are very aware and grateful for that love and support. 
God is real people.  Keep your focus......you too will hit your knees when you feel that love!  Please take time during this season to open your mind to seeing God's Glory.
Jennifer will have another surgery tomorrow.  We once again ask you to keep her in your prayers and please know that we are lifting you and yours up during this holiday season.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

I don't believe in God....

That got your attention didn't it.

I have come across this statement a few times in the past few weeks.  It is very concerning, but something that is very real in the world we live in.  We often think that the kids that go to our church and go to our "Christian" school all believe in God.

That is not the case.  In some cases, it becomes even harder.  The kids at TCPS have heard about God and read about God all of their lives.  Then we have kids that start to develop through 9th-12th grade and they see so much of the world.  They start to think for themselves and so many things become so difficult for them.

I struggle so hard not to dominate a conversation and "prove" my God's existence.  After all, I have experienced God in such a personal way through my life and especially through Jennifer's journey.
I am reminded that I cannot save these kids.  I can only show them love and continue to listen for God's voice in guiding when to influence.

We can talk the talk, but the kids now are about looking at others walk.  They tune the talk out.  The walk makes sense to them.  So when they see people talk the talk and then walk in a different way...it becomes very confusing.  The challenge is on us as Christian leaders to step up.

I pray that we continue to love those that are confused in their faith as much as the kids that "get it".  We are called to tell others about God, but we can tell our story through patience, kindness, love, etc.
The kids that question God often get discarded...therefore never seeing the love and kindness or any attributes of God....therefore it becomes harder to believe in. 

Pray about someone that you are not sure that believes in God and begin to pray about how to minister to them.  It makes a difference.